Dating advice for women in their 40s
Google maps forever changed how we get where we want to go. Facebook forever changed how we communicate with loved ones.
Yet when it comes to dating, the expectation is that everything should remain the same as it did in the caveman era.
If you change nothing else about your search for a man after reading this article, at least hear this: most women think that they will upset the rules of chivalry by sending a message to a man but they forget one very crucial thing.
She loved to travel and stay at 5 star resorts and dreamed of being able to make this trip with the man she loved rather than with girlfriends or alone.I often hear clients say, “There are no good men in ______.” (Insert whichever city, the problem is the same.) The client believes that since they haven’t been able to find good men or they aren’t approached by as many men as they were in their 20s or 30s that it means that the well of good men in their town has totally dried up.It’s not a universal problem, it is due to their location, their status, their career, their divorce/kids/etc. If they believe that there are no good men around them they definitely will not see them.It’s time for us to embrace the impact of technology on the mating process.The playing field of courtship has been leveled and it allows for connections to be made and relationships to be formed which would never have had a chance a few short decades ago.